PDA

View Full Version : What is a good Counselor?


code3cadet
12-12-2005, 12:35 AM
I got this from one of my staff handbooks If you saw it on here feel free to get rid of it.

What is a Camp Counselor?
By Phyllis M. Ford

Somewhere between adolescence and adulthood there occurs in human development an age which is physically and psychologically impossible. It is that unfathomable stage known as the camp counselor, a creature undefined by psychologists, misunderstood by camp directors, worshiped by campers, either admired or doubted by parents, and unheard of by the rest of society.

A camp counselor is a rare combination of doctor, lawyer, indian and chief. he is a competent child psychologist with her sophomore textbook as proof. he is an underpaid babysitter with neither television nor refrigerator. he is a strict disciplinarian with a twinkle in her eye. he is referee, coach, teacher, and advisor. he is an example of humanity in worn out tennis shoes, a sweatshirt two sizes too large, and a hat two sizes too small. he is a humorist in a crisis, a doctor in an emergency, and a song leader, entertainer, and play director. he is an idol with her head in a cloud of woodsmoke and her feet in the mud. he is a comforter under a leaky tarp on a canoe overnight, and a pal who just loaned someone her last pair of dry socks. he is a teacher of the outdoors, knee deep in poison ivy.

A counselor dislikes waiting in line, cabin inspection, and rainy days. he is fond of sunbathing, exploring, teaching new games, an old car named Mrs. Beasley, and days off. he is handy for patching up broken friendships, bloody noses, and torn jeans. he is good at locating lost towels at the waterfront, fixing stopped up toilets, making friendship bracelets, and catching fish. he is poor at crawling out of bed on rainy mornings, and remembering to fill out forms.

A counselor is a friendly guide in the middle of a cold, dark, wet night on the long winding trail to the TLC. Who but he can cure homesickness, air out wet bedding, play 16 games of 4-square in succession, whistle "Dixie" through her fingers, carry all the cook-out food, speak Pig Latin in Spanish, stand on her hands, sing 37 verses of "You Can't get to Heaven", and eat four helpings of Sunday dinner.

A counselor is expected to repair 10 years of damage to Jill in 13 days, make Julie into a woman, rehabilitate Judy, allow Joan to be an individual and help Gertrude adjust to a group. he is expected to lead the most prized possessions of 20 adults much older than he. he is expected to lead them in fun and adventure, even when her head aches; to teach them to live in the outdoors, even though he spends 9 months a year in the city; to teach them indigenous activities when he can't even spell the word; to guide youngsters in social adjustment, when he hasn't even reached a legal age; to ensure safety and health, with a sunburned nose, a band-aid on her thumb, and a blister on her heel.

For all this he is paid enough to buy the second text in psychology, some aspirin, some new socks, two tires for Mrs. Beasley, and some new tennis shoes. You wonder how he can stand the pace and the pressure. You wonder if he really knows how much he is worth. And somehow, you realize that you can never pay her enough when, as he leaves at the end of the summer, he waves goodbye and says, "See ya next year!"

KiwiCRB
12-12-2005, 12:59 AM
Ya we had this in our staff handbook also.

rockinsmiles
12-12-2005, 10:29 AM
aaah that mixed in with the weather right now makes me miss camp even more! i cant wait...next month im conntacting camp to get my app.!

CAMPFRIEND
12-12-2005, 12:10 PM
I have this in my staff book. It's great. I start off with it during staff training!

Dave
12-12-2005, 07:49 PM
Nice article code3. :) Thanks for sharing. I think I've seen this before, but it's a great read.

code3cadet
01-04-2007, 09:51 PM
I love this evey time I read it. I am going to hand it out to all the youth counselors at my camp. I think that it will halp them out

code3cadet
01-10-2008, 10:46 PM
Just getting this to the top of the list read it is a good story

Smudge
01-10-2008, 11:27 PM
I am sure this article was in one of my staff manuals over the years! It does amuse as it describes our job perfectly!

guttst
01-14-2008, 01:03 AM
I edited this article a bit to make one for guys & one for girls & personally handed them out on folded pieces of blue & pink paper to each of my staff (and added a small personalized note of thanks at the bottom to each of them.) They all loved it, especially the girls.

Smudge
01-14-2008, 01:41 AM
I like that idea - but I wouldn't have like it on pink paper - I dont do pink!

these.city.lights
01-14-2008, 10:02 AM
guttst, thats a really cool idea. I'd have loved to receive one of those. In fact one of my fellow counsellors passed around postcards from his homeland (China) with a little personal note on. It was a nice gesture and its one of those things you keep forever.

laurathistle
01-14-2008, 06:50 PM
Guttst, that was a really nice thing to do for your fellow counselors. When people at camp did things like that for me (we did feel good fairies at my camp) I really appreciated them and have kept them. I don't care what colour of paper they are on, I wouldn't have cared if they were written on toilet paper, it is the sentiment behind them that means the most to me.

these.city.lights
01-14-2008, 07:04 PM
I agree with Laura.

Pink rules!

laurathistle
01-14-2008, 07:06 PM
Would that be pink TP, or just pink in general? Hang on, you can't get coloured TP in the US, can you?

these.city.lights
01-14-2008, 07:10 PM
uhh i dont know ive never bought any lol.

im sure there are ways to colour it yourself? :D

laurathistle
01-14-2008, 07:20 PM
Thats gross! I was refering to an all over colour, not just a smudge of colour!

Smudge
01-14-2008, 07:34 PM
you can get color TP in the USA - i think i have even seen pink! not sure why any one would want pink TP but that is just me - I cant stand pink!

these.city.lights
01-14-2008, 08:04 PM
haha oh right. I was just kidding!

KiwiCRB
01-14-2008, 09:39 PM
One day last summer I was in my tent and it was just one of those days where every camper needed something even though it was nap time. I was getting frustrated and decided there wasn't time to sleep so I pulled out my bible. I opened to a random page and it was a verse about how all the people would come to Moses' tent door to complain. It was very ironic and it made me smile and not let my interrupted nap time affect me. I typed it out and gave it to the staff and they all got some enjoyment out of it as well.

Smudge
01-14-2008, 10:31 PM
Cool!

When I was at church camp as a youth people used to do things like find scriptures such as : "and they dewlt in a tent" - and that would be their devotional - off the topic I know

To get back to the topic - last summer I had quote of the week (or day depending on how organised I was) which I would write out and put up in our staff cabin to inspire my fellow counsellors.

code3cadet
05-04-2010, 03:37 PM
back to the top me like me like